I have my degree, my Apt, My own car and a great Job and women look at me like Im a ghost or something they just cant believe it. My pops rasied me he is big on Respect and a Man holding his own. He is why I am where I am. I just hear alot of complaints that on average alot of black men try to live off a woman. For me peronally hellll Naawww. I do my thing. Is this true?
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Having all those things to me is normal nothing to bust about. Like graduating high school who brags about that its something you should natrually do.
Gertie thats whats up, I get black men talking to me like they think I think Im too good or somehting because of how I grew up middle class. Im not rich but no I will never apply for a job as fast food or a mall no I want to make real Money Im not better than anyone, I just believe hard work pays off. Its a shock to me that I hear so much about my Brothas becasue I know the struggle. I made it through and it makes me apprecieate what I have. Thanks for the good answer and the one above you was a good answer to.
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There are a lot of black men out there like that! The good ones, like you, seem to get over looked. A lot of black males did not have good role models like your pops seems to have been, growing up. So, now they are doing the same things that their fathers did for them or didnt do for them. I applaud you and your positive life. We need more like you out there!! The negative black men are why so many black females are raising sons into men alone! So stay on the path you are on!
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Unfortunately its true. I just got rid of one. He was a major gold
digger. Great for you that you have got your stuff together.
I dont think there are any more black than white guys who are free loaders.
their are alot of men in general regardless of race feel as though a woman has to care and provide for them now a days youre seeing less of the family home setting and more of the single home dewellings that conisist of the man not wanting to work to provide( but he wants to be the boss wear the pants if you will) and if a woman allow this kind of behavior from a man he will continue to do just that ..but in my home my husband and i both provide for our family and we are equals so i guess you could say we share the pants
And the "race" card just keeps being played. There are MANY men of all races who are a wast of good skin.
Maybe if you dress up or down a bit then gals will take you seriously.
No need to brag about yourself … like they say "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS"
between the race its equal but if you are doing so great who has time for gossip
Dont be shocked. There are plenty of men out there who must have been the only male in their family their mommas made them rotten for any other woman. I will even go so far as to say that some of these mothers let their children down. If they had respect for their own mothers they would not be leaching off of women who are out there trying to make it. But yes, as ugly as it sounds it is true. Part of it is their trifling selves, but most of the blame goes to the women who are so pressed that they are allowing these men to think that they are Gods gift. I have run into too many guys who front, and then come across hard times when you meet them, then do nothing to bounce back. I dont have patience for that kind so I told mine, if only he was trying to look for a job, they could have been roommates until they were successful, but not bothering means you have other means, but not here and not now.
I am an independent woman, not really interested in getting involved in another empty relationship Id rather be alone than to wrestle with some of the baggage men lay at your feet. One guy tried to make me feel guilty for growing up middle class. One brother was a self made man, kept referring to himself in the third person and kept trying to hold carrots over my head as if I was a hootchie or gold digger in an attempt to have me do what he wanted. I truly considered dating more men outside of my race, but the culture shock is just as sickening. Went out with this one guy, looking at Def Jam, hes asking what the punchline was, missing the next joke because he was not as acclimated with the language I couldnt deal. Besides, the clinging vines I met I felt I was almost on the verge of being stalked brothers definitely have rejection issues and it is too much to see so many men with so many issues.
My house is paid for, my vehicle is paid for, I have wonderful animals, no children and no man in residence, but Im not complaining.
Do your thing. End of story.
You have your sh it together. You may be singled out for being successful. Deal with it. Finding her may take years, but she will be worth the wait and give your life meaning.
fact:
Women latch onto guys because they FEEL something for them.
Usually its BAD and they are LOSERS. But you know what, when they feel something for a guy its because something stands out. Doesnt matter if its good.
And usually its bad. They feel SOMETHING. Which is more than they feel for normal average guys, who provide NOTHING in terms of emotion. Because theyre nice.
If you make a woman feel ANYTHING toward you then you have an advantage, even if it is not positive!!!
I am a gentleman and I ran into a fukcign asohle who was going out with this gorgeous woman. I said hello on the street to him because he knew a good friend of mine and i occasionally run into him.
He gave me sh it and even his date thought he was rude…He went out of his way to insult me. Didnt matter. He was the alpha male. She felt SOMETHING about him, even if it wasnt positive. She picked him. And it wont last. She is not unconscionable.
do your thing, Dog.
or MOVE
there are alot of men in general that can be called leeches!!
I dont know any black men that live off women. there are a few that take advantage of their ba mos but thats gonna happen wherever you go. good for you man for representing, but ba, people will always be hateing on you. Just take no notice.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of men, regardless of race, that would rather sponge off others than work and earn their own living. Im sorry that women look at you that way. You sound like a catch to me.
I think alos females are guilty of expecting the man to BRING something to the table …
but anyway
I presume your talking from an American point of view. There is a perception that Black men(if not people) dont have it altogether like that and alwys rely on someone else to support them …
eg: Welfare system
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