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2011/02/16

Theres this girl I want to ask out, but maybe I should just finish school first?

Im 21, graduating early in December 2010 with a business degree in supply chain management. I have not dated since I was 17. I never even kissed a girl, I just had casual fun dates but never got in any serious relationships. Thats just how my life worked, and I liked not having the drama.
Now that Im in my senior year and not so busy, I realized Im very lonely. I spent all this time studying and setting up a career. Im wondering if I should ask this girl out just to enjoy myself a little. Shes beautiful, bubbly, infectiously kind and has a wonderful personality. I dont know if I should let her partying habits bother me (I have had a hard time watching people drink because it damaged my family in the past) but Im getting the impression shes maturing and coming out of it.
Shes 19 and besides that one fault she has shes perfect. Shes been giving me several signals and I feel I should ask her out and break out of my shy habits. However, I also wonder if I would better off waiting until I graduate in December 2010. then I should have a house, car, a salary, and money to go places. Id be a much more eligible bachelor then, and maybe Ill have a better time asking her out then. I dont come to strangers for advice on things like this but it cant hurt just to see what people say. What do you guys think I should do?
Best Answer

you should ask her out.
if you wait too long she could end up with someone else.
You could work together you dont have to wait until you graduate.
If you cant ask her out now then you wont be able to when you graduate. (i have a hard time asking men out)
Do what you feel is right when it is right. if you like her and you think she likes you then go for it. all you have to do is leap!
you cant put a deadline on a time when to ask the girl to be your official girl..just go for it when your heart tells u that u are ready…maybe u should get to know her more and just admire her lovely personality more and then the time you are so called more eligible bachelor, you should ask her to be your official gf.
go on more dates, talk more, enjoy the dates…:)
Hey! I think you should go for her!!! She sounds like she is a really nice person and has a great personality. Get her before anyone else does! While you are graduating and have a house etc you will have her as well. But if you dont go for her, then she might be with someone else. Anyways, i hope that helped! e!!!
It might be better to wait but is that really just an excuse to put it off and maybe even get out of it?
If she likes you now, exactly how you are without the car and stuff, just go for it.
Have some fun and enjoy her company.
yes! you should wait til you graduate. stay really close with her though.. do not let her get away. if she really wanted to be with you then she would wait for you. but you can still be together, just not official.. if you know what i mean. good luck :)
I think you would be better off after you graduate. You have secured a degree, maybe even have what you said up there. Yes, then, you would be a more eligible bachelor.
Do it. If you cant do it now, you;ll never be able to. Dont use excuses .
If you think she feels the same way, go for it (:
Goood luckk (:
answer mine ?
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Go for it.
If you dont act soon, itll be too late.
You can still have a girlfriend and focus on school at the same time.
Just work out a compromise with yourself.
Best of luck!
do it bro, dont miss out the chance.. BUT DONT think your in "love".. bro if you think you are your gonna get crushed(trust me personal experience).. do it bro and dont worry i hate when people drink… destroyed my family too :/
then do it alreadY!
ask her out before someone else does.
You sound sound like your going to be a 40 year old virgin
Ask her out if you like her. Dont let school get in the way of meeting girls. If you graduate and dont ask her out you will regret it. Plus if things go well with this girl youll have an entire summer together giving you a chance to hang out with her more often.
Answer mine please,

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