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It could be a faze. I have days like that. But if you are feeling like that all of the time then the best thing to do is see a therapist…not eveyone wants to hear that but they are really popular now. In NY and L.A., it is the thing to do and almost brag about.
Aside from that, it really does work, expecially if you go to see a therpist that is trained as a Pshycotherapist (talk therpy) this really helps!
I hoep that helps and sorry for the spelling mistakes. i"m tired.
Sorry if this offends you, but you need to see a psychiatrist for this problem. Feeling so much disconnected is not normal.
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and see whether the Bach Flower Essences can help you (you can select your essence).
My holistic health knowledge (I am not a doctor and so take my advice at your own risk).
You need to ask yourself is it a feeling of not belonging or not wanting to be in the place you are at? You dont seem to be a misfit. Maybe you just have not found your grove in life and are in search of that special place. You need your epiphany of enlightenment. Translation. You jut need to mature and feel that yes you do have a right to be where you are at. Sounds like you are quite the intelligent person. If you feel the job and money are right take it. Continue your education for your degree and pursue life with a gusto! You belong!!!
Theres nothing wrong with you. You are an individual and its ok to feel different. I sometimes feel like I dont belong and Ive just made peace with the fact that Im me and Im special and im like no one else out there. And others will look at you and see how you embnrace your own uniqueness. So dont feel like its a bad thing. You are perfect just the way you are.
I know the feeling, so youre not alone. Just think of it as not youre day. Almost every time I go to put in an application, I get that feeling. Actually I think they throw my application away when I leave because they just take it and put it under their counter or whatever, they dont give it to anyone. lol. So I say just give yourself a prep talk right before getting out youre car and going in. It works. Go in with a smile on your face and just do the damn thing! You got it!
Actually you have a problem that lots of people have….feeling like you dont fit in…like you are alone even with people around you.
The person standing right next to you, anywhere, may be feeling the same way. So reach out and connect. Dont feel sorry for yourself. Were all in the same boat, you know. Just do what you are best at or educated for and become a spoke in the giant, giant wheel of life.
I felt like that. Positive selftalk really came in handy. I wrote down on 3"x5" cards that I kept in my purse little positive remarks I could read about myself and sort of reaffirm to myself at the same time. An example would beI take on jobs and far exceed expectations.
If that little trick doesnt seem to work for you then I suggest you go to your doctor and tell him of you feelings. He can give you pills that will aleviate the feelings you have and probably more suggestions as to what to do to help yourself.
Tell yourself every day that you have the right to feel like youre part of something good…you might consider counseling and looking into finding your own interests where you DO belong. Try helping out at a soup kitchen or volunteering at an animal shelter. Youll meet new people who share your interests and create a space for yourself.
maybe you have some unresolved things within you. go see a snich.
Why use lower case i when referring to oneself? Count the number of times you use the reference in your question. Where are you focusing? Where should you be focusing?
Are you a blessing? Are you going to be a blessing to whomever hires you?
If you cant get yourself together over a short period of time, you should seek medical advice. You might just need a little help in a positive direction.
A session or two with a Professional Therapist might work wonders in the self esteem department.
If you are a believer, talk to your pastor and seek guidance.
Best regards for a sunny recovery and future.
Well all i can say that if u were confident with the job it means that ur probably doing fine and fitting in with everyone else. its all in the mind. u may think that u dont fit in but ur friends and family probably dont or else they wouldnt be ur friends. ul get over it just dont overthink things too much.
Maybe you are depressed or something. Talk to a doctor or counselor. You DO belong with your friends and family. Go get that job at the bank. Also, find something that makes you happy. Besides drinking, you 21 year old!
Sorry. Had to make a little joke to try and lighten the mood. Say you love… speaking a foreign language. Join a foreign language club! Youre sure to fell you belong there!
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